All good, yeah we have.
I’m sorry to hear that! I think the first thing to do is just take a breathe and remind yourself of everything you have to be happy about. Then try and get to the root of what’s actually bothering you regarding you’re break up. Do you honestly just still want to be with him? Or is the upset stemming from something you’re telling yourself? Like, ‘I’m not good enough’, ‘I’ll never find love again’ .. None of which is valid or the truth. Make sure you are in communication about how you are feeling, but keep it positive and constructive.
If you are really struggling to pull yourself inTo a good space on your own, have you thought about going to a session or two with a councillor? Talking it out with someone who has a outsider (professional) perspective can be really helpful. I recommend going to see a holistic one who believes in the mind, body, spirit connection! X
Ps. I’d love you to come off Anon and talk to me properly about it so I understand all the background details and can give you proper more specified advice.
I have an open circle on one wrist and the word ‘fernweh’ on the other. I think about getting new ones all the time and I’m constantly drawing on myself with fine liner. I’m just too indecisive about it though, and don’t want to end up covered because I still like the ‘clean, fresh and pure’ look and I think tattoos can take away from that. I like that mine are subtle and I can cover them up easily.
What a beautiful day it is to stay in bed and not fulfil any of my obligations or commitments.